Since i've got nothing much to do now, i shall blog. This post i wanna talk about trust & loyalty
in a marriage/relationship. I am not pin pointing anyone, it's just how i feel and my feelings.
Of course, i am not referring to my hus. Cause i believe his loyalty to me, and i will trust him.
But if i say i 100% have trust in him, it's a lie too. There is no 100% in life.
I may not been through alot at my age of 21 this year, but i seen alot of cases also.
in a marriage/relationship. I am not pin pointing anyone, it's just how i feel and my feelings.
Of course, i am not referring to my hus. Cause i believe his loyalty to me, and i will trust him.
But if i say i 100% have trust in him, it's a lie too. There is no 100% in life.
I may not been through alot at my age of 21 this year, but i seen alot of cases also.
To me, trust is a very important key to a happy and loving relationship.
And the trust have to be gained as time goes by. I've been hurt too, and i know how it felt.
The trust being taken away from me and turned me into someone full of panaroid and suspicions.
That type of life is miserable, having to be with someone that you love but you dont trust him.
But then, who turned us into someone like this, full of panaroid and suspicions?
It's them, our spouse. We always trusted them but it's them who made us turn our backs
and decided not to trust them anymore. Who doesn't want to trust their boyfriend/husband?
Everyone wants to, but it's them who made us don't trust them.
And since you make the decision to be with the one you love, gave them the promise
then you should keep the promise and cherish them.
What for being together just to inflict hurt and pain to the one you love.
Or is that you dont love them already, thats why you hurt them. I really dont know.
Guys, can't you all just be faithful and love your girlfriend or wife whole heartedly?
Why get married and still you wanna play outside?
Why get married and still you wanna play outside?
Lie to your girlfriend or wife just to hanky panky with other woman?
Seriously, what the fuck lah! If you are married please dont do such things.
It's a very hurtful thing and you betrayed your love one.
But if you did something wrong in the past and you are really regretful
and promised that you will change, provided that you really prove that you will change.
and promised that you will change, provided that you really prove that you will change.
Then you will be forgiven. However, honestly how many woman can forgive
unfaithfulness which is betrayal. Seriously, i really can't.
If something like this really happen to me, i really dont know what i will do.
At this stage, i didn't think so far cause i believe and trust that my husband
won't do such things to hurt me and to destroy our family.
We woman trust because we love too much, too deeply. Just because we love
the man in our life with our heart. There is trust cause there is love.
